minx Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 erik said: there are two sides to every story and BOTH are right. so when you approach someone debate them converse or whatever you should actually be ready to listen 1st and then speak after thought and not voice your "correct" ideas. there are two sides to every thing and the truth lies somewhere in between them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thelawgoddess Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 catbirdseat said: Women think a silent man must be full of complex thoughts. i used to think this. i kept asking him, "what are you thinking?" and he would always say, "nothing." at first i thought he just didn't want to tell me (for whatever reason) ... and then one day it finally hit me -- that he was actually not thinking about a god-damned thing! it was difficult for me to fathom, but it was real eye-opener. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RuMR Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 kitten said: RuMR said: Hey Kitten!! Have you gotten your daughter out cragging yet?? Yep yep yep - went and sorched ourselves by Classic Crack this weekend. She was a trooper! She scetched out at about 15 feet, so we backed off. I didn't want to push her. The next day, I asked if she wanted to go again. She said "yeah, I'll go climbing with you tomorrow". SHE THAT IS SO AWESOME!!!!!!! I'm hittin' squamish this weekend with my oldest.... We should have a family climb w/ other cc'ers that have kids!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stefan Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 LAWGODDESS: I am married so I aint hitting on you. I am trying to follow you, but I am confused. If I was ugly, what do I have to do to get into bed with you? If I was gorgeous, what do I have to do to get into bed with you? Now don't give me that crap about it doesn't matter what you look like, because my wife has a lot of single girlfriends. They are all looking for prince charming, but when I show them pictures, they say , "No thanks, I don't think so." In addition, single women did turn me down when I asked them to dance at clubs. Why the fuck would you go to a dance club and NOT dance? So tell me. How can I get you to my home? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthumbs Posted June 11, 2003 Author Share Posted June 11, 2003 there's always something on my mind Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erik Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 i dont attempt to find the truth in what people are saying pointless is there any truth?? or just personal interpetations..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitten Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 erik said: i also find it laughable how everyone throws around all these conjectures to what men and women do and know.. i see, smell, hear etc..... everything.... i always have something to say to every thing i have ever encountered. wheter it be prudent at the time or not, is up to me to decided. sometimes it is easier to allow the other person think that they are right/smarter or whatever to appease the situation. if you are dumb enough to think that this is complacency then you are the one with the issue. men are not dogs anymore then women are. attemtping to keyhole a person into a sterotype on an intimate level is what creates the issue. there are two sides to every story and BOTH are right. so when you approach someone debate them converse or whatever you should actually be ready to listen 1st and then speak after thought and not voice your "correct" ideas. compromise is the only way to succed in a situation that involves two morons!!!! WHOA Eric I never said women weren't dogs as well - we are all Bitches at some time or another. So how do we all live together and get along. Compromise? Yep you're right. But both parties have to want to do the work and make the sacrifices. It is never a one way street in a relationship. I should know! It is a little humorous to see how men and women view eachother. No wonder there is so much damn miscommunication. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthumbs Posted June 11, 2003 Author Share Posted June 11, 2003 Stefan said: LAWGODDESS: I am married so I aint hitting on you. I am trying to follow you, but I am confused. If I was ugly, what do I have to do to get into bed with you? If I was gorgeous, what do I have to do to get into bed with you? Now don't give me that crap about it doesn't matter what you look like, because my wife has a lot of single girlfriends. They are all looking for prince charming, but when I show them pictures, they say , "No thanks, I don't think so." In addition, single women did turn me down when I asked them to dance at clubs. Why the fuck would you go to a dance club and NOT dance? So tell me. How can I get you to my home? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RuMR Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 You think she's gonna tell you??? THAT WOULD BE TOO SIMPLE... sheesh, even i know you gotta figger this out on your own... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erik Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 i answer "nothing" to the questions "what are you thinking about" cuz if i wanted to fucking tell you, i would. some thoughts are private. some thoughts are only meant for one person or one situtation. i think it is selfish of a person to think they have to know what their significant other is thinking all the time. cuz i would bet a nickle that your asking the questions stems from your issues and not theirs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minx Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 erik said: i dont attempt to find the truth in what people are saying pointless is there any truth?? or just personal interpetations..... well that's the point silly...personal interpretations color everything. we never really see the truth. thus we must learn to listen and compromise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fence_Sitter Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 thelawgoddess said: minx said: Fence_Sitter said: "domestic chores" or domestic chores... cause baby... i can break out the feather duster... you might be able to break it out but do you actually know what to do w/it? lol. one way to find out... be there at 8? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erik Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 minx said: erik said: i dont attempt to find the truth in what people are saying pointless is there any truth?? or just personal interpetations..... well that's the point silly...personal interpretations color everything. we never really see the truth. thus we must learn to listen and compromise. um thanks for clarifying what i already had clarified. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr._Natural Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 i hear there is a web site where you can order fake bank reciepts with huge balances. So order some of these and when you give some gurl yur digits, pretend like this is the only scrap of paper you could find and scribble your name and #. if you are looking for a life parter this is not a great technique but if you are just looking for some then.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minx Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 erik said: minx said: erik said: i dont attempt to find the truth in what people are saying pointless is there any truth?? or just personal interpetations..... well that's the point silly...personal interpretations color everything. we never really see the truth. thus we must learn to listen and compromise. um thanks for clarifying what i already had clarified. yeah...bite me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catbirdseat Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 You'd NEVER do a deceitful thing like that would you, Mr. Natch? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthumbs Posted June 11, 2003 Author Share Posted June 11, 2003 Before I go huntin' I consult a psychic hotline to determine which bartenders will be pouring strong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr._Natural Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 nope, I have been called a serial monogamist and therefore would have no need for such shenannagans. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thelawgoddess Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 Stefan said: If I was ugly, what do I have to do to get into bed with you? If I was gorgeous, what do I have to do to get into bed with you? Now don't give me that crap about it doesn't matter what you look like, because my wife has a lot of single girlfriends. They are all looking for prince charming, but when I show them pictures, they say , "No thanks, I don't think so." In addition, single women did turn me down when I asked them to dance at clubs. Why the fuck would you go to a dance club and NOT dance? i'm not going to give you any crap; i'm going to tell you straight up. it does f'ing matter. not to every woman out there, but to me, yes. let me start off by telling you that when i go to a club i go to dance ... but i would rather dance by myself than dance with some guy i'm not interested in. dancing with someone is almost like having sex with them. (unless they're a friend, which is a whole different scenario, and i assume we're talking strangers here.) if you're gorgeous, all you have to do is make a move. hell, if you're gorgeous chances are i will make the move on you. i'm personally not afraid to go after what i want -- if i want it bad enough. if you're "ugly" ... well that's where things get complicated. ugly strangers basically have no chance. none. zip. nada. sorry, charlie; it just ain't gonna happen. if you're an "ugly" friend, you've got a chance. timing has a lot to do with it, and lots of things come into play as to whether anything will ever happen and whether it will a one-time gig or a f'-buddy situation. i won't go into details, but i hope that helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JGowans Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 Interesting thread. I think it's fair to say that relationships by their very definition have evolved dramatically in the last 50 or so years. So much so, to the point where we obsess about them and are encouraged to obsess about them. Let's face it, people justify intellectually, and buy emotionally. Magazines, product placements and TV all pander to one's emotions and what stronger emotion to cater to than the wealth of them tied up your intimate relationships? The problem though, is that it has made amateur psychologists out of most us, and bad ones at that. Relationships are for the most part pretty simple. They're based upon not much more than respect, trust, and love. Bearing those three things in mind should be enough to help any couple navigate the potential pitfalls. The tricky part I suppose is finding the person with whom things really are that damned simple. Life and love seem so much clearer then. Seek simplicity and love you will find. Wait a minute? Did that really just come from my keyboard? WTF??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allthumbs Posted June 11, 2003 Author Share Posted June 11, 2003 ugly attracts ugly simple Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RuMR Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 thelawgoddess said: Stefan said: If I was ugly, what do I have to do to get into bed with you? If I was gorgeous, what do I have to do to get into bed with you? Now don't give me that crap about it doesn't matter what you look like, because my wife has a lot of single girlfriends. They are all looking for prince charming, but when I show them pictures, they say , "No thanks, I don't think so." In addition, single women did turn me down when I asked them to dance at clubs. Why the fuck would you go to a dance club and NOT dance? i'm not going to give you any crap; i'm going to tell you straight up. it does f'ing matter. not to every woman out there, but to me, yes. let me start off by telling you that when i go to a club i go to dance ... but i would rather dance by myself than dance with some guy i'm not interested in. dancing with someone is almost like having sex with them. (unless they're a friend, which is a whole different scenario, and i assume we're talking strangers here.) if you're gorgeous, all you have to do is make a move. hell, if you're gorgeous chances are i will make the move on you. i'm personally not afraid to go after what i want -- if i want it bad enough. if you're "ugly" ... well that's where things get complicated. ugly strangers basically have no chance. none. zip. nada. sorry, charlie; it just ain't gonna happen. if you're an "ugly" friend, you've got a chance. timing has a lot to do with it, and lots of things come into play as to whether anything will ever happen and whether it will a one-time gig or a f'-buddy situation. i won't go into details, but i hope that helps. OMFG!!! BLACK AND WHITE!!!!!!!! i don't believe my eyes!! Who's using TLG's account???????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erik Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 JGowans said: Interesting thread. I think it's fair to say that relationships by their very definition have evolved dramatically in the last 50 or so years. So much so, to the point where we obsess about them and are encouraged to obsess about them. Let's face it, people justify intellectually, and buy emotionally. Magazines, product placements and TV all pander to one's emotions and what stronger emotion to cater to than the wealth of them tied up your intimate relationships? The problem though, is that it has made amateur psychologists out of most us, and bad ones at that. Relationships are for the most part pretty simple. They're based upon not much more than respect, trust, and love. Bearing those three things in mind should be enough to help any couple navigate the potential pitfalls. The tricky part I suppose is finding the person with whom things really are that damned simple. Life and love seem so much clearer then. Seek simplicity and love you will find. Wait a minute? Did that really just come from my keyboard? WTF??? nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JGowans Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 trask said: ugly attracts ugly simple (Except if you're Lyall Lovett or rich as hell) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catbirdseat Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 As Fred Sanford once said, "beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clear down to the bone!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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