[cafesensitiviosodemeanor]You must forgive me. I've been running on close to empty lately; my hair-stylist cancelled my appointment this week; my Pilates instructor (who knows my inimitable motivational needs) is going to work for Bradgelina; my Barista, who after months of my training her, transferred to another store (bitch!); and, I'm totally upset with my dentist for the length of time she's taking to finish the caps on my teeth. You understand MY angst now, yes?
I would be one of the last to constrain another with the puerility of cultural taboos. My God! One of my favorite songs is "Sweetest Taboo" by Sade! Don't you just love her! [/cafesensitiviosodemeanor]
[honesty]I've two gorgeous daughters, both in their twenties, that regularly dress in the latest fashion of their age-group which includes unabashed display of breast, camel-toe and coin-slot; they're both accountable for themselves and my only ply on them is love with the commensurate grace of freedom. They're smart (for their age) and I have little compunction in their following their paths through this world. [/honesty]
There is no expansive growth until restrictions in mindset are set aside or allowed to die.
Or, pertinent to this topic, one should "think outside the box".