I don't mind and you don't matter.
Carolyn: Nice post! I think a lot of it has to do with breathing. You can be ready to fall off and revitalize with some quick breaths. I an't tell you how many times I have fallen off a climb only to realize after that I was holding my breath.
Also, singular focus on the move can often pull one through. So often one gets distracted by potential fall, gear placements, clips, landing, partner talking, etc.
My $.02
p.s. Just kidding, Dru!