so, what you're saying is ... i should get more in touch with my non-sexual masochistic side? i agree that it is an often "irrational" fear, but *realistically* how does one get over it? you're right that relatively speaking i didn't get *that* hurt - no missing limbs, broken bones or stitches anyway. it took me over a year before i got my ear pierced again just because i knew it would hurt!