The idea of a gang rape or a gang er, bang, is not something that the female psyche typically finds sexy or appealing. It's terrifying, it's offensive, and it is completely inappropriate, even to spray. Itseriously makes me want to vomit. How whis is even remotely funny is way beyond me.
To put another view on it: how would you feel if this remark were directed at your wife, daughter, or girlfriend?
I'm assuming the above comments were not directed to me since they are definitely not reflective of my feelings nor are they responding to what I wrote. But what the hell, I'll respond anyway.
I was joking about the dissonance between the definition of rape and the use of the word "willingly" as an adjunct to that. Its not my problem if you try to dilute the definition of rape by attributing willing participation to it. I'm no feminist, nor do I play one on the web, but I'm guessing they would be offended by YOUR comment as much as by cavemans.
As for my wife, if she was as active a participant to this board as you are, I am pretty sure she would expect that type of retarded comment from Caveman (a.k.a. Potsy with Tourrettes). She's also be pretty unlikely to get her panties all wadded up about it too but then again she married me so she can't be all that bright.