Whole grain bread, pasta, crackers etc. really aren't that much better than their white equivalents (as they are still very processed) despite what Food Inc would have you believe (the first ingredient in whole grain Fruit Loops is still sugar). If you really want the benefits of whole grains, eat more unprocessed whole grains:
*oat groats (takes longer to cook, so i cook these up the night before and nuke 'em in the morning
*steel cut oats - similar nutritional value as oat groats, but cook faster
*Brown rice
*Buckwheat
...you get the idea.
I throw in some blueberries or raisins and Flax seed oil (omega 3 source) with my oats - breakfast of champions. Add brown sugar or organic maple syrup (grade b) if you must - its still way better than whole grain fruit loops