well, there's your problem - you're bummed from not sending. don't let it bother you. if they're just curious hikers i don't see any reason to lie to them. a lot of times you've just attempted to do something they wouldn't dream of trying. if they're assholes, give them a short answer and keep going. no need to be an asshole back just because you're mad or disappointed at yourself. people are curious by nature - that's how they learn.