Cragpassaround. Makes for kind of a cool word. CPA?
Archie, you've been doing an awful lot of whining about being intimidated by younger chicks (a very relative term, depending on one's age and outlook) while telling all the guys here to grow up. Hmmmmmmmm.
I like to focus on what's on my own plate, ie, the mirror, even if it's not fillet mignon. I couldn't give less of a shit about other guys, other than to enjoy their company, have fun, and give/receive the occasional anonymous blow job.
As for guys turning into vampires once you get to know them, well, some guys let their hair down right off the bat, but most will tip toe through a mine field to check things out first. You gotsta figure out what role you're playing in all that.