It appears that you have made judgement on what type of climbing Dechristo does.  I believe the subject was of a bouldering fall aprx. 20' up.  I have bailed on boulders from that high up and have been fine.  Not to say, a small change could have occured "in the same fall" resulting in serious injury.  So do I set up limitations?  When skiing, do I skip the kicker that is begging for me to hit it.  Because if I don't, I run the risk of injury, creating the need for someone to wipe my ass? 
  
  
Wally made a post.  In the post he included his opinion. 
  
    
  
  
  
Dechristo puts his opinion here. 
  
    
  
And finally Pope.  You post your   Sentiments   Here. 
  
 
  
How did bouldering get to "self-absorbed soloing mission"  And BTW, my mom has been wiping my ass since I was born.  Bike crashes, Bee stings, "drowning", falling off a cliff, etc. etc. etc.  I doubt she wishes in any way that I had been "more thoughfull of her having to take care of me" in what I do in life.