SCJB, all else aside, consider how what you post here presents you as an individual. You now have a post on a web board that paints you as homophobic. The internet is forever.
If your goal is to be a hardman, you are making it difficult on yourself. These things are based on relationships with people; no one ever did it completely on their own. You are currently creating a reputation that will precede you (negatively) in the climbing world.