t_rutl Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 (edited) bullshit. I'll denounce the hypocrisy of claiming virtue when it isn't true but I never pounce on someone, whoever they are, for having any kind of extra-marital sex. unless banging somebody else is an agreed upon constant...there are numerous other ways to deal with a situation...if you cant work through whatever problems there are or nutup and end the relationship...than screwing around behind your spouses back when you made the commitment to forsake all others while you are together...i'm sorry to say...makes you a scumbag...now you can be redeamed from scumbag status...but at the moment or the moment you're so incoveniently caught you're a scumbag...no matter who you are but yes...the hypocisy elevets your scumbag status edit: and i'm not "pouncing" nor would "pounce" on somebody for infidelity...i've had a friend who cheated on his wife...now he was and is still a good friend...even though he made a scumbag move and i called him that...but i didnt bail on him as a friend...through their divorce i was still there to help him deal with the reprocussions of his actions...just because you make a scumbag move doesnt mean you should be treated like shit Edited October 2, 2009 by t_rutl Quote
j_b Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 dude, that's pretty righteous but it's a lot more complicated than that. 40% of all marriages end up in divorce, most probably involving some kind of infidelity. Quote
dberdinka Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 Lettermans now a douchebag John Ensign. There's a scumbag Republican Senator abuses power to cover up affair (with female) "Early last year, Senator John Ensign contacted a small circle of political and corporate supporters back home in Nevada...seeking work for a close friend and top Washington aide, Douglas Hampton. The job pitch left out one salient fact: the senator was having an affair with Mr. Hampton’s wife, Cynthia, a campaign aide. In the coming months, the senator arranged for Mr. Hampton to join a political consulting firm .... Mr. Ensign and his staff then repeatedly intervened on the companies’ behalf with federal agencies, often after urging from Mr. Hampton." Quote
t_rutl Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 dude, that's pretty righteous but it's a lot more complicated than that. 40% of all marriages end up in divorce, most probably involving some kind of infidelity. i thought it was like 50%!! and i'm sure a hefty portion are from infidelity...i guess i've just been fortunate to have things good so far (not married) but happy and would never cross my mind to go elsewhere for some lovin'...so a hard thing to grasp Quote
KaskadskyjKozak Posted October 2, 2009 Author Posted October 2, 2009 dude, that's pretty righteous but it's a lot more complicated than that. 40% of all marriages end up in divorce, most probably involving some kind of infidelity. i thought it was like 50%!! and i'm sure a hefty portion are from infidelity...i guess i've just been fortunate to have things good so far (not married) but happy and would never cross my mind to go elsewhere for some lovin'...so a hard thing to grasp a lot of those divorces are "repeats" (same person divorced multiple times) Quote
ivan Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 wait, i was supposed to be looking up to letterman as a paragon of virtue? Quote
t_rutl Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 wait, i was supposed to be looking up to letterman as a paragon of virtue? duh! actually no...Leno...he has more cars Quote
KaskadskyjKozak Posted October 2, 2009 Author Posted October 2, 2009 wait, i was supposed to be looking up to letterman as a paragon of virtue? he's a smug fuck and the story is pretty over the top. that's about it Quote
j_b Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 Infidelity Stats granted from 1999...now say 22% is low becase of the "inherant secrecy" i'm sure but the "approaching 60%" now that it is 2009...please... even if something is really messed why not just divorce?? lots of different stats there, notably a wide range of estimates, including this one: Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship (Atwood & Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy). I can't claim my experience to be absolutely representative but most people I have known something about have had affairs, whether they lived in an urban or rural environment. Quote
Mal_Con Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 It is not cheating if you are not married and he wasn't married at the time. Probably there was a reason he did not marry his girlfriend of 23 years until after this affair was over. Quote
KaskadskyjKozak Posted October 2, 2009 Author Posted October 2, 2009 It is not cheating if you are not married your girlfriend buys that? Quote
t_rutl Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 It is not cheating if you are not married right and he wasn't married at the time. Probably there was a reason he did not marry his girlfriend of 23 years until after this affair was over. still a DB move but in the end its his life and he can live it how he chooses Quote
ivan Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 It is not cheating if you are not married your girlfriend buys that? it's not cheating if you're thinking of her...or if you don't come Quote
Bug Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 In Utah co-eds do it anally so they retain their virginity. And almost all of them are republicans. Ask Layton! Why do we care what a tv talking head does any more than folks on this board? Or should we start a poll? An th th th that's all folks. Quote
Pete_H Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 A hollywood celebrity is having an affair!! I'm shocked, just shocked. Quote
ivan Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 A hollywood celebrity is having an affair!! I'm shocked, just shocked. i thought he was a new yorker? Quote
KaskadskyjKozak Posted October 2, 2009 Author Posted October 2, 2009 A hollywood celebrity is having an affair!! I'm shocked, just shocked. i thought he was a new yorker? From Indiana. Real Hollywood. Quote
ivan Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 A hollywood celebrity is having an affair!! I'm shocked, just shocked. i thought he was a new yorker? From Indiana. Real Hollywood. the most fun i ever had in indiana i had in kentucky Quote
G-spotter Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 If your girlfriend owns the sheep you just fucked, is it infidelity? Quote
j_b Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 (edited) oops, wrong thread Edited October 2, 2009 by j_b Quote
Pete_H Posted October 2, 2009 Posted October 2, 2009 (edited) A hollywood celebrity is having an affair!! I'm shocked, just shocked. i thought he was a new yorker? Good catch. I had forgotten that New York is the bastion of monogamy. Edited October 2, 2009 by Pete_H Quote
Doug Posted October 3, 2009 Posted October 3, 2009 I guess that's what David learned at Ball State University! Quote
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