Good to see you again Sobo.
Look I'm no expert on relationships whatsoever, so I'm just speaking from my perspective. I've just been exposed lately to so many relationships (close friends of ours) that have dissolved. I am very well aware that many things happen behind closed doors, but it seemed liked in many of these cases, they began happy, but ultimately they seemed to start to really hate each other in the end. It seemed strange to me. That's all.
I apologize CP, if this has completely missed anything resembling your situation.
Sobo: Beers. Sooner than later!