yet another post from someone who didn't read the "any girls out there" comment...
I've used the Trangos (Captain Hooks) on water ice in NY, and I really like them. I've done some mixed climbing on them, and they performed well. I've heard rumors about picks breaking, but we were only doing top-roping, so it didn't really concern us. I've also used some Simond Piranhas, and I found them to be light (which I liked). For what it's worth, I've used some Cobras and Quarks just tooling around at the bottom of a climb and the Cobras had the best swing I've felt. I didn't care for the Quarks too much. Unfortunately, this was all a few years ago, so I can't vouch for the size of the handles. I don't have small hands, but I was using huge mittens and didn't have any problem with the grips.