Man says "yes, I love your new haircut!" Now he thinks the woman should be thinking about how nice he was to say so. Instead, she's thinking "So he didn't like the old one. He told me he loved that one too! Lying pig." Or, flip side. Woman says "Let's do something fun tonight." She's thinking romantic dinner followed by an extended session of love makin. He's thinking: Hockey game and hot wings, preceded by, interupted by and followed by extended sessions of fucking.