i don't expect a guy to open my car door for me. (especially if i'm driving. ) i think it's really sweet when it's done, but i don't expect it. i do like it to be done for me when it's dark, though - more for safety than anything else. i open the door for my boyfriend sometimes; just depends. i generally let him close it himself. if you do it, just close the door after she's in. i don't think you need to wait until she buckles herself in and all. as for the chair thing, i think that's overkill. (but then again i wasn't born with a silver spoon in my mouth.) i mean, i really think it's unneccary unless you're really trying to impress someone - and in that case, be prepared to do it for your entire relationship. i actually always feel awkward when someone does my chair for me. i mean, what's the point? i like it when i get to choose where i sit, though.