Sounding cool? I dunno...given the level of obnoxious hostility, contempt, anger, and destructiveness in most of spray it seems to me there are a lot of very flawed people out there. Based only on these posts, there's hardly anyone here I'd even want to meet, much less spend time with. With only a little himility or capacity to be self-critical most people would be ashamed of themeselves for some of these posts. The ability to get along peaceably and amicably with one another seems more important now than ever yet some here gloat in their capacity to be destructive and defamatory.