Ah. Well you have always been inclined to take offense at comments I intend as neutral.
So you avoided posting pictures of yourself for YEARS because you didn't want to appear to be fishing for attention. Then one day you had a reason to change. I think there's a pretty obvious difference between your actions and those of your average myspace cam girl. If someone doesn't know your history or doesn't get it and says something rude to you... why is it different from some guy saying something you don't like about breastfeeding? You still know who you are. Why doesn't the call-him-a-fuckface-and-move-on approach work here?