oh come on....door opening as a sign of chivalry? aren't there better ways for your date to make you feel feminine? uggh! it's nice if he does but if he doesn't can't you find other things he does to be just as "polite".
chivalry is an art. the fine art of making you feel like the best person he's ever laid eyes upon. the specific act of opening a door or pulling out a chair doesn't mean the guy is chivalrous. it just means he was trained. it's one thing to expect to be treated well, it's another to judge that treatment by archaic, provincial old standards good grief! i'd be afraid to go on a date w/you.
big-mac. sounds like marie's date didn't even bother to find out what she wanted for dinner before ordering. i don't care who orders the food but you better order what i want.