selkirk Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 Dru = becoming predictable That doesn't sound like the good crazy in da bed.... she kind of sounds like the knife wielding variety :0 Quote
dmuja Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 Hows the song go... "...Don't you wish your girlfriend was a freak like me. Don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me. Don't you..." Quote
Knottygirl Posted March 9, 2007 Author Posted March 9, 2007 When's the pub club scheduled for? I'd say in the next couple of weeks....we've actually been thinking of a party Quote
archenemy Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 Yeah, a "Going Away" party. I am so there. You just tell me what booze to bring and how many roofies you want for your ex-psycho-galpal and I'll bring 'em. Quote
ashw_justin Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 Don't put a sociopath in survival mode--it just makes them more determined and self-righteous. The last thing you want is to give them an excuse to feel sorry for themselves/victimized/persecuted, as they will just use this to mask their own guilt. Have you tried this, act defeated, tell her that she has made your lives a depressive living hell (i.e. be honest). Pretend to be her friend if you have to, lay all your shit on her, talk about your feelings. Maybe through self-consciousness or embarrassment, she might actually touch on remorse, and realize that she's being an antisocial nutcase. If she gets off on aggression and hate, then all you have to do to ruin her fun is act like a hippie love child. That is, unless you can just kick her out somehow. If you can't... well, then I hate to say it but a forced eviction situation is your fault if the 'crazy bitch' called your bluff. Better to feel it out a little before declaring war. Quote
ken4ord Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 Don't put a sociopath in survival mode--it just makes them more determined and self-righteous. The last thing you want is to give them an excuse to feel sorry for themselves/victimized/persecuted, as they will just use this to mask their own guilt. Have you tried this, act defeated, tell her that she has made your lives a depressive living hell (i.e. be honest). Pretend to be her friend if you have to, lay all your shit on her, talk about your feelings. Maybe through self-consciousness or embarrassment, she might actually touch on remorse, and realize that she's being an antisocial nutcase. If she gets off on aggression and hate, then all you have to do to ruin her fun is act like a hippie love child. That is, unless you can just kick her out somehow. If you can't... well, then I hate to say it but a forced eviction situation is your fault if the 'crazy bitch' called your bluff. Better to feel it out a little before declaring war. :tup: Best suggestion so far. I used to be a landlord and it was a major pain in the ass to get rid of some junkie tenants that I had that didn't want to leave. It took me more than two months, paying to rental u-haul and rental closet before I could get them out. I imagine that it is even harder to evict even just one person and keep the rest. What about helping her fin a place? Essentially that is what I did with my junkie tenants, well I found them a storage unit paid for the first month and paid for the u-haul. In general I don't like shelling out money, but in this case it was well worth the cost. Quote
ivan Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 ken - what'd be the rwandan solution to this problem? Quote
powdrx Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 Pull an Eastwood on her... Easy way and Hard way. Talk to her and tell her things are not working and she needs to find other accomodations. EASY= you offer to help her find a new place and even assist in moving. A little work can go a long way in your personal piece of mind. HARD= is she refues, take joy in making her life a living hell like she is doing to you. Lock up important stuff in your room and just punish her till she leaves!! This can be a fun contest with you and your other roomies as to who can get the biggest reaction out of her. And you will rest knowing you tried to work things out!! But don't worry, the spring and summer are fast approaching and you can spend even more time AWAY FROM HOME!! Good Luck!! Quote
Knottygirl Posted March 9, 2007 Author Posted March 9, 2007 Yeah I've just been avoiding home....I can't be that vindictive and won't lower myself to her level. It seems to drive her more crazy that I'm not doing anything. She did announce that she's willing to fight this any way she can. Quote
cindy66 Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 If it comes to this, "Weekend Climberz" is correct. Be careful though.... it will most likely get worse before it gets better. FIRST OF ALL...........WHEN SHE LEAVES THE HOME ,TO THE STORE........UMPLUG SEREO.........CUT OFF PLUG IN..........NO PROBLEM WITH THE MUSIC ANY MORE..........WHEN SHE ACTS ASSANINE............BE THE WORSE ASS TO HER............SHEWILL GET TIREDOF IT AND POOF SH E IS GONE Quote
Knottygirl Posted March 10, 2007 Author Posted March 10, 2007 If it comes to this, "Weekend Climberz" is correct. Be careful though.... it will most likely get worse before it gets better. FIRST OF ALL...........WHEN SHE LEAVES THE HOME ,TO THE STORE........UMPLUG SEREO.........CUT OFF PLUG IN..........NO PROBLEM WITH THE MUSIC ANY MORE..........WHEN SHE ACTS ASSANINE............BE THE WORSE ASS TO HER............SHEWILL GET TIREDOF IT AND POOF SH E IS GONE actually she does all this because she wants attention. it is killing her that i'm not doing/saying a thing. she's needs constant attention whether its negative or positive...now she's not getting any and shes going more nuts. in fact the reason she began all this (or at least what seems to have started it)is I suddenly haven't been home much...or responding to her 10 text messages a day asking where I am, what am i doing..told ya, single white female...not to say i haven't had thoughts of doing fucked up shit to her...I just can't, I'm too damn nice! Quote
kevbone Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 Have you thought of fucking her. You and her should get in on. If you can kill em...you might at well join em... Quote
Knottygirl Posted March 10, 2007 Author Posted March 10, 2007 Have you thought of fucking her. You and her should get in on. If you can kill em...you might at well join em... she's way to hipster for me to be interested in....sorry Quote
Hayduke Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 If she is truly crazy you should call the police when she is having an episode. If she is dangerous to herself and/or others they will process an involuntary commital. Mental illness is one of the most undertreated conditions in healthcare. Recognize a call for help and steer her in the the right direction. Sometimes a psychiatric institution is the best place for those in need. Protect yourself. Put a lock on your bedroom door. Get together with your roommates and make a plan. Keep your cell phone with you at all times so you can call for help. Think about buying mace/pepper spray. Remember the most dangerous room is the kitchen! Get the landlord to serve her an eviction notice. Normally a renter has 30 days to vacate, then after 1 month has passed, call the sherrif and he will evict her forcibly if necessarily. Force your landlord to participate. He/she could be liable and become a target of a suit from you/the other renters. Do not commit any acts of violence or try to forcibly remove her yourself. You could end up in trouble. Keep written notes of everything that is happening. Take photos if appropriate. Every individual can be an instrument of change, both in his own life and in the lives of others. Remember to be compassionate and use your will to change things for the good. PM me for more advice. Quote
kevbone Posted April 5, 2007 Posted April 5, 2007 and a job And Arch is still looking for a life. Quote
bstach Posted April 5, 2007 Posted April 5, 2007 And Kevbone is still living in his mother's basement, wanking off to 80's guitar has-beens Quote
Knottygirl Posted April 10, 2007 Author Posted April 10, 2007 well crazy moved out! she took all the communal furniture, the shower curtain and hooks, and the garbage can (just dumping the garbage on the floor) yay! Quote
Dechristo Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 well crazy moved out! she took all the communal furniture, the shower curtain and hooks, and the garbage can (just dumping the garbage on the floor) yay! It sounds like the loss and clean-up is worth it. Fill us in on the events leading up to her departure Quote
archenemy Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 well crazy moved out! she took all the communal furniture, the shower curtain and hooks, and the garbage can (just dumping the garbage on the floor) yay! but did she take the ice trays? Quote
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