How about if we just post threads for people who have kids and want to climb with similiar in the partners forum (just specify it in your thread title). If we break it down too much, the next thing you know the men will be asking for their own forum apart from the women. Then the gay and lesbian crowd will speak up, and soon we'll all have our own private forums and not talk to one another. OK, so there is a little bit of hyberbole here, but you know what I'm talking about, right?