from a man's mouth to my ears to you " you don't want to date a girl at the top of the mountian, or the one sitting in the car bitching"
I took that to mean that there are woman that are just to competitive with the guy they are climbing with. no guy wants to date some one that he constanltly has to prove himself or his worthieness too. Or a girl who has something to prove.
no guy wants to date a bitch
so maybe it is not the guys but perhaps how you present yourself and your goals.
just food for thought
Damn, don’t you think jumping to the conclusion that this chick is a bitch is a bit much?
I don't know the guy you're talking about so he could have meant it any number of ways, but frankly, that quote sounds to me like the old “I want a girl who climbs, but not quite as hard as I do” syndrome. When I’m climbing I want to climb, as hard as I can, without worry about whether or not that’s going to hurt some guy’s ego. I don’t think men are really all that fragile anyway.
Despite the fact that it evidently means I'm a hideously ugly bitch who hates alpine, one of the things I've really enjoyed about being a single climber is that climbing is about climbing, pure and simple, and it's *not* all mixed up with relationship issues.