cindy66 Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 I have a man who wants to meet me, have chatted online for 6 months..........now he wants to drive 470 miles to meet me,,,should i or should i not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bstach Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 on-line dating is great. A friend of mine met *both* his wives on-line. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 WE have climbing in common,and we are both widows/widower. We have sent pictures back and fourth,seems to like what he sees and i the same...but would hate for the dude to turn out to be a Ted Bundy! Wonder if you can do background checks? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joblo7 Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 i'd do the phonecall thing...first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 Have had several phone calls between us., spend 5 and 6 hours a night instant messaging...would like to see up close and personal before i invested my time......but how to do that without him knowing its me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sobo Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 ...Wonder if you can do background checks? Â Sign up for this site, maybe?? How much ya wanna spend to find out what you don't wanna know? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 I will pay what ever price i have to pay, would like to walk in to this with eyes wide open.....or not walk in it.....thanks for the site. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sobo Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 De nada. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G-spotter Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 you've been stringing the dude along with steamy IM for 6 months but don't want to meet in person? hmmmm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 No i want to meet him.........but new to single life...( widow over a year) .........but you do have a point,they did get steamy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joblo7 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 wtf just meet him somewhere public with a friend there....then you'll know. and you'll have a witness for the trial. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 do you live in the sticks and are willing to relocate? Â If not, there are plenty of guys much much closer who i am sure are equally as interesting. Otherwise you're wasting your time and making yourself vulnerable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bstach Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Troll? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Choada_Boy Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Saw IV Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolyn Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 You can pay to get a background check done on someone. You can also google their name and often find some information. Have a friend be at whatever place you go when you first meet. Stay in public. Have someone call you midway through the date. If its not going well, then tell him there is an emergency and you have to leave. If its going fine, then tell the caller you will talk to them later. Set up a few calls or text messages, if need be. Dont let him know where you live until you feel comfortable. Maybe avoid alcohol, initially so your judgement is sound? Â Follow your gut. Â Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolyn Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Saw IV Â CreeeeeePYYYYY! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lI1|1! Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 cindergirl, Â you should have your friends here at cc.com watching out for you. before you meet him have him show up at a pub club so your net friends here can check him out first. Â Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joblo7 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 make sure you pack heat.! and a wire.have a friend video tape from a distance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joblo7 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 WE have climbing in common,and we are both widows/widower  i hope he told YOU those 2 things first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pink Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 (edited) cindergirl, you should have your friends here at cc.com watching out for you. before you meet him have him show up at a pub club so your net friends here can check him out first.    YOU LAME ASSES ACTUALLY CONJUGATE OUTSIDE OF THIS WEBSITE Edited January 15, 2007 by pink Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jordop Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 You can also google their name and often find some information. Yeah but you can also put some windowlicker's name in and get a reputable person by mistake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevbone Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 I have a man who wants to meet me, have chatted online for 6 months..........now he wants to drive 470 miles to meet me,,,should i or should i not? Â If you have to ask on this forum.....your already fucked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bstach Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 If he has chatted with you for 6 months, that says something. Take the normal precautions you would on any first date. Â Would you let someone belay you on the first date? Make sure he places protection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minx Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 i just think it's funny that you're asking this question on an internet forum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevbone Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 i just think it's funny that you're asking this question on an internet forum  I agree minx...which makes me think. This thread is a troll!    Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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