G-spotter Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 should you feed... online s peanuts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pink Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 should you feed... online s peanuts? Â Â please do not feed the online :pagetop:'s. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pink Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 should you feed... online s peanuts? Â Â please do not feed the online :pagetop:'s. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pink Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 just remember, the fucking you get ain't worth the fucking you get. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tvashtarkatena Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 If you take standard security precautions, what do you have to lose? 470 miles is a bit of a practical difficulty, though. But what the hell; if you don't like him, chop him up with a machete and feed him to a wood chipper. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 Saw IV Â Â I didnt like the movie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 cindergirl, you should have your friends here at cc.com watching out for you. before you meet him have him show up at a pub club so your net friends here can check him out first.   \ Now that is a scary thought., ...........Opinions are like a** holes , every one has them....but was hoping someone had dabbled in online singles thing.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dechristo Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 With the history of the relationship as you've explained it, you'd better be ready to meat a guy who expects to get laid after travelling 400+ miles. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 With the history of the relationship as you've explained it, you'd better be ready to meat a guy who expects to get laid after travelling 400+ miles. Â EXACTly,.....the single life is a scary place to be.,does it get worse? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tvashtarkatena Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 If you have him come out and you're worried about his expectations, just make it explicit that getting laid at first meeting is NOT on the table beforehand. Â Â You can always change your mind after that 2nd bottle of wine... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dechristo Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 ....the single life is a scary place to be.,does it get worse? Â you could find out the guy's actually married and has been using the widower story to further the emotional connection with you. And beyond that, there are plenty of "worse" scenarios. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tvashtarkatena Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 You could find out the guy's actually a fourteen year old girl with excellent acting skills. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 ....the single life is a scary place to be.,does it get worse? Â you could find out the guy's actually married and has been using the widower story to further the emotional connection with you. And beyond that, there are plenty of "worse" scenarios. Â I would not sleep at night knowing I had been with a married man.Im not about that.,....but I am very curious about him. I have been the one asking all the questions and we do have some things in common, and is not a bad looking fellar either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 You could find out the guy's actually a fourteen year old girl with excellent acting skills. Â This would be the end of life as I know it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dechristo Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 I would not sleep at night knowing I had been with a married man.Im not about that.,... Â If you're that concerned about it, you'd best use an investigative tool like those posted previously. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joblo7 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 i think you belong to each other. YOU'RE BOTH LOSERS!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
counterfeitfake Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 People can be dishonest on- or off-line, at some point you have to decide whether you think you can trust 'em, and then take the chance. I say go for it if you have a good feeling about him. I've met cool people online, both romantically and non-romantically. Â And of course he's hoping to get laid, that is normal. If he's not a jackass he also realizes that it's never a sure thing. And if you've been flirting with him for six months you must be open to the idea. So there you go- it's a first date. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 i think you belong to each other. YOU'RE BOTH LOSERS!!!!!!!!!!!! Â Reading that post brings to mind ...Do you keep flea and tick soap in the shower? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Off_White Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Yeah, all the above cautionary statements should be seriously considered. That said, I do know several couples who have happily met through online means, and I believe CC.com has at least one happy marriage and several relationships of unknown quality/duration to it's matchmaking credit. Â Six months worth of online courting, including frequent 5-6 hour chat sessions of various temperatures, sounds like a lot of work for a cheating husband or a psycho killer, I'm sure there are easier ways to do that sort of thing. Â Most folks here would agree that there's nothing wrong with a little consensual recreational sex. If you've been doing the online version of that with this person, then you should feel fine being blunt about your concerns. Go ahead and lay out how you want this meeting to unfold, and be upfront about your desire for safeguards. Being honest and open is a great first step to a relationship, and it sounds like you've spent enough time talking for that to be expected. Â As has been mentioned, above all, pay attention to your instincts. Love is a great thing, and it's worth at least as much risk as your average desperate alpine first ascent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 People can be dishonest on- or off-line, at some point you have to decide whether you think you can trust 'em, and then take the chance. I say go for it if you have a good feeling about him. I've met cool people online, both romantically and non-romantically. And of course he's hoping to get laid, that is normal. If he's not a jackass he also realizes that it's never a sure thing. And if you've been flirting with him for six months you must be open to the idea. So there you go- it's a first date. [/quo  I like this opinion! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joblo7 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 get a puupy!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 Yeah, all the above cautionary statements should be seriously considered. That said, I do know several couples who have happily met through online means, and I believe CC.com has at least one happy marriage and several relationships of unknown quality/duration to it's matchmaking credit. Â Six months worth of online courting, including frequent 5-6 hour chat sessions of various temperatures, sounds like a lot of work for a cheating husband or a psycho killer, I'm sure there are easier ways to do that sort of thing. Â Most folks here would agree that there's nothing wrong with a little consensual recreational sex. If you've been doing the online version of that with this person, then you should feel fine being blunt about your concerns. Go ahead and lay out how you want this meeting to unfold, and be upfront about your desire for safeguards. Being honest and open is a great first step to a relationship, and it sounds like you've spent enough time talking for that to be expected. Â As has been mentioned, above all, pay attention to your instincts. Love is a great thing, and it's worth at least as much risk as your average desperate alpine first ascent. Â Â Â Â Â Now this is well put...I like this answer as well,and gives a differnt aspect to look at the situation....job well done there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joblo7 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 he told you what YOU WANTED TO HEAR!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy66 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 get a puupy!!!! Â Â Â I have a dog! A russian bear dog..Russian around corner to bear down on biscuits. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joblo7 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Trust your intuition . if you dont trust HIM, then you dont. you had all this time....let it sit without doing anything for a while and see what develops. good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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