i think what ray is saying that why do you choose to impose your beliefs on an entire people whom know only that, their entire life is that and their entire heritage is that?
it does not matter what outsiders think, they could careless.
the muslim's are still a tribal people for the most part, they live their lives as they did a 1000 years ago in many regards.
don't impose your morals on someone else, as you did not want to someone to do to you.