i am not really sure what you mean by that. but no i am not married any more. however that doesn't have any thing to do with my disdain for ostentatious jewelry.i picked my ring and it was less than 800$ and i planned my wedding for under 5,000. if i were to get married again, i still don't want a huge diamond and i would be perfectly happy getting married in the woods somewhere with 4 maybe 5 people there. why would i want a huge diamond ring? i am athletic and end up taking my rings off all the time, at the gym to work out, before i climb, when i go hiking, when i do yoga etc. everyone has a preference. but then i can't figure out why anyone would want a TV that costs 1000 dollars either.