To you maybe….I happen to think the result of the sex is the most incredible experience to have……watching my son being born.
birth is a uniquely singular event. you can be there all you want but you are not experiencing it. Birth is not a shared event between mother and father. only baby and mom know whats up. and although it was amazing to give birth, it was not becuase it was pleasurable. it was much like any other body function that has to happen. it was going to happen whether i wanted it to or not and i had very little say over the whole thing. it was totally primal. I screamed and my body did the rest with out me. I was just along for the ride.