Amazingly, I'm only eight years older than Salma Hayek, but I get your drift. Frankly, if I were the father of this 39 year old woman, I'd be a lot more concerned about her Ramtha devotion than statements about her hottness.
My daughter is only 14, so I might view comments about her hotness from a man your age with some disapproval. When she's older, it will be easy enough to let go of the little girl and hope for happy consensual relations of her own choosing. The years between 16 and 18? You'll excuse me if I don't want to dwell on that right now...