Jay let's be like the Economist and use statistics.
Jordan: 20 women killed by fathers/uncles/brothers etc. for sex outside marriage
Population: 5,906,760
Rate: 20/5.9 million = 3.4 x 10^-6
USA: 1,232 women each year killed by an "Intimate partner" . No mention of how many killed by male relatives, but we'll skip that bit for now.
USA Population 298, 444, 125 as of July 2006
Rate: 4.13 X10^-6
These are not significantly different figures. The level of violence against women is therefore probably not statistically much different between Jordan and the USA. Your smug "Ooooh I'm so glad I'm not a Muslim" ignores that violence against women in the West occurs at levels comparable to those elsewhere in the world.