avoiding negativity completely, and spewing nothing but negativity, are two sides of the same coin.
Spray is what you make it, so why don't you continue to post in spray, but with your newfound positive attitude?
Someone once said the middle path is the correct one. Well, at least, that's what people say he said. Of course, they weren't there to hear him say that, so who knows. But still, it sounds about right to me.