i agree. i think that people jsut dont have the desire to make it work and shit. i think that isnce the idea of divorce is not as taboo, it is more of an option and couples are not forced to wrok through their problems. i fully plan on being a person who is happiest at 65 when my wife and i have figured how to enjoy each other's company and bee 100% bliss-full. people do it, so it is possible. i just think ya gotta find the right person and wrok your ass off, but i, too am jsut a snotty-nosed brat.