I hope you do find real true love erik. the kind that can last a life time.
That is a fantasy..."real love" is a ton of work...day in and day out w/ constant compromise...but its worth it, in my opinion...
We had such a rough spot about 4 1/2 years ago, i thought it was splitzville and we were gonna be another statistic, nothing seemed right...so far, we've gotten through that...but as trask's little chart pointed out, nothing seems to be written in stone(or rock)...