Yeah, sobo, that's what I was wondering too.
Anyway, when one of my partners (someone I know reasonably well) does something I think is unsafe, I've got no problem calling them on it. I hope that they're as frank with me whne I do something foolish.
When it's someone who's basically a stranger, it's a little harder to do this. I try to always check out their anchors, how they belay, etc. Obviousy jeffski didn't have the opportunity to check out the TR anchor after the other guy reset it, though.