wow chuck gets it. that's the only decent relationship advice ever posted on cc.com
don't make your wife ask you not to go so much. cool women don't want to do that. contrary to popular believe, we don't want to nag you or have to ask you to spend some time hanging out w/us. we'd like to think that you'd do that b/c we are worth spending time with.
i have seriously learned to hate skiing b/c of this.
BUT if she really really really enjoys belaying and handing you cold beers later then by all means climb as much you want