minx Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 wow---i'm sensing rumr and tvash getting a little defensive. yes perhaps they do have meaning for the individual.... maybe not who cares? just another statistic Quote
tvashtarkatena Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 And they are usually more fun b/c they haven't had sex in about two years. That makes for the best 2 minutes of their lives and the messiest 2 minutes of yours. Quote
grtmtnchic Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 And they are usually more fun b/c they haven't had sex in about two years. Absolutely! As long as they are actually divorced and not just separated and saying they are divorced. Fuckers. Quote
archenemy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 And they are usually more fun b/c they haven't had sex in about two years. Absolutely! As long as they are actually divorced and not just separated and saying they are divorced. Fuckers. Yeah, cuz men lying in order to get laid is only something they do when they are "getting divorced". Quote
grtmtnchic Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Don't. No amount of money is worth it. So I keep hearing! Is marriage good for anyone? I mean, seriously. Aside from the tax breaks? NO! don't do it! the tax breaks aren't worth it Nope, I have NO plan to EVER get married. Or even come close to it. Ever. Seriously. Quote
StevenSeagal Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Sure. They are single. And so they don't live as long as married men. if i weren't so lazy i'd dig up the study probaby rather old though happiest: 1) single women 2) married men 3) single men 4) married women Uh...riiiight. We all know how supremely satisfied most 48 year old single, never been married women are. No social pressure whatsoever on them? I think that list would be re-ordered for different age groups. Quote
grtmtnchic Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Sure. They are single. And so they don't live as long as married men. if i weren't so lazy i'd dig up the study probaby rather old though happiest: 1) single women 2) married men 3) single men 4) married women Do these studies offer any wisdom or meaning for an individual? Yeah, it's like how my married brother tells me to ENJOY my freedom because he is so jealous he has none. It's a good reminder to enjoy one's singlehood and live it up. Quote
StevenSeagal Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Don't. No amount of money is worth it. So I keep hearing! Is marriage good for anyone? I mean, seriously. Aside from the tax breaks? NO! don't do it! the tax breaks aren't worth it Nope, I have NO plan to EVER get married. Or even come close to it. Ever. Seriously. Do you simply have no planfor marriage? Or are you actively planning to go out of your way to never get married? Quote
archenemy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 I disagree. Most of my closest friends are women in their 50's. Two are never-married and one is a widow. All are very happy well-adjusted women who have fun, strong personalities and many interests. They love dating men and love being women. They have no more fucked up social pressures than the rest of us. They deal with them well. Update your view. Quote
grtmtnchic Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 And they are usually more fun b/c they haven't had sex in about two years. Absolutely! As long as they are actually divorced and not just separated and saying they are divorced. Fuckers. Yeah, cuz men lying in order to get laid is only something they do when they are "getting divorced". Hmmm....true...so they're fuckers all the time? Quote
StevenSeagal Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Sure. They are single. And so they don't live as long as married men. if i weren't so lazy i'd dig up the study probaby rather old though happiest: 1) single women 2) married men 3) single men 4) married women Do these studies offer any wisdom or meaning for an individual? Yeah, it's like how my married brother tells me to ENJOY my freedom because he is so jealous he has none. It's a good reminder to enjoy one's singlehood and live it up. Sounds like your brother simply has a crappy relationship. I wouldn't order your whole view of a partnership on that paradigm. Quote
archenemy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 And they are usually more fun b/c they haven't had sex in about two years. Absolutely! As long as they are actually divorced and not just separated and saying they are divorced. Fuckers. Yeah, cuz men lying in order to get laid is only something they do when they are "getting divorced". Hmmm....true...so they're fuckers all the time? Yes. But that is their good charateristic. Enjoy it. Quote
grtmtnchic Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Don't. No amount of money is worth it. So I keep hearing! Is marriage good for anyone? I mean, seriously. Aside from the tax breaks? NO! don't do it! the tax breaks aren't worth it Nope, I have NO plan to EVER get married. Or even come close to it. Ever. Seriously. Do you simply have no planfor marriage? Or are you actively planning to go out of your way to never get married? Um...I have no plan nor desire to ever be married. I think it's a bassackwards institution that is set up to fail. I would consider "partnership" but it would have to be in an open fashion. How would one go out of one's way to never be married? Quote
archenemy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Don't. No amount of money is worth it. So I keep hearing! Is marriage good for anyone? I mean, seriously. Aside from the tax breaks? NO! don't do it! the tax breaks aren't worth it Nope, I have NO plan to EVER get married. Or even come close to it. Ever. Seriously. Do you simply have no planfor marriage? Or are you actively planning to go out of your way to never get married? Um...I have no plan nor desire to ever be married. I think it's a bassackwards institution that is set up to fail. I would consider "partnership" but it would have to be in an open fashion. How would one go out of one's way to never be married? Only have same-sex relationships. Then you can never get married (at least not in the US) Quote
grtmtnchic Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Sure. They are single. And so they don't live as long as married men. if i weren't so lazy i'd dig up the study probaby rather old though happiest: 1) single women 2) married men 3) single men 4) married women Do these studies offer any wisdom or meaning for an individual? Yeah, it's like how my married brother tells me to ENJOY my freedom because he is so jealous he has none. It's a good reminder to enjoy one's singlehood and live it up. Sounds like your brother simply has a crappy relationship. I wouldn't order your whole view of a partnership on that paradigm. Honestly, nearly everyone around me is in the midst of divorce right now - maybe it's the age group or just a really strange coincidence, but watching the fallout of so many marriages at the same time and all the shity consequences has really skewed my perspective. Quote
grtmtnchic Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 (edited) Only have same-sex relationships. Then you can never get married (at least not in the US) True, but I really like men... Edited March 24, 2008 by grtmtnchic Quote
archenemy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Or rather, because we have to marry one man. And he always turns out to be an asshole. Men are so much more fun when they are lovers and not husbands. Quote
minx Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 divorce works for some people so does marriage i used to say that marriage was just a piece of paper then i got married now i know it really is just a piece of paper. Quote
archenemy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 Don't. No amount of money is worth it. So I keep hearing! Is marriage good for anyone? I mean, seriously. Aside from the tax breaks? NO! don't do it! the tax breaks aren't worth it Nope, I have NO plan to EVER get married. Or even come close to it. Ever. Seriously. Do you simply have no planfor marriage? Or are you actively planning to go out of your way to never get married? Um...I have no plan nor desire to ever be married. I think it's a bassackwards institution that is set up to fail. I would consider "partnership" but it would have to be in an open fashion. How would one go out of one's way to never be married? Only have same-sex relationships. Then you can never get married (at least not in the US) True, but I really like men... Yeah, me too. Emphasis on the plural. Quote
tvashtarkatena Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 (edited) wow---i'm sensing rumr and tvash getting a little defensive. yes perhaps they do have meaning for the individual.... maybe not who cares? just another statistic Asking a couple of obvious questions about this generalizing drivel is getting defensive? And don't ever lump me in with RuMR again. Edited March 24, 2008 by tvashtarkatena Quote
archenemy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 divorce works for some people so does marriage i used to say that marriage was just a piece of paper then i got married now i know it really is just a piece of paper. Toilet paper. Quote
archenemy Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 wow---i'm sensing rumr and tvash getting a little defensive. yes perhaps they do have meaning for the individual.... maybe not who cares? just another statistic Asking a couple of obvious questions about this generalizing drivel is getting defensive? And dont' ever lump me in with RuMR again. Quote
grtmtnchic Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 True, but I really like men... Yeah, me too. Emphasis on the plural. That's my problem! I try to stick with just one. Hmmmm....plural...I'll try it. Did we scare off all the guys here? Quote
minx Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 tvash, you need a good lump so take yours w/rumr Quote
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