Let me get this straight...you corresponded with a guy for six whole months yet you were so cautious and apprehensive about him that you couldn't decide whether it was advisable to meet him...then you finally met him in person and within a few hours of arrival cut loose for a weekend of drunken partying, any worries tossed to the wind...well, what the hell? - a good time is a good time aint it?... well, OKKAAAAYY, WHATEVER.