to me thats like paying someone to clean my house. even if i could afford it i don't think i could have done that when my kids were little. i do have a yard guy though. i hate yard work HATE!!
she doesn't clean...
anyway, this is the decision you two made, that one would work outside the home and one would work inside the home, so why bitch about it???? And why expect the one working outside the home to work as hard inside the home as the stay-at-home???? can't have your cake and eat it too...
Our nanny drives 18 miles one way to my house Monday – Friday, pretty much just watches my son and tries her hardest to have a meal ready when we get home and tries to do laundry, but in the end, we just want her to watch our son. With my wife owning her won business and me working 40 a week, and we both HATE daycare….a nanny is the only way…..she rocks and is worth every penny.