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a hispanic male govenor. hilary--she's bill's wife. too weird to vote for if we're making the decision based on "feeling" instead of logic. qualifications--not sure she's doing anything other than the same old thing. need to follow up on what she wants to pursue obama-sounds too much like osama, again if we're talking about "feeling". if we're talking about qualifications, too young and inexperienced. has some interesting ideas and some charisma

in carolyn's defense, my first instinct was the same as hers "creepy". then i thought about it a little more. it may actually be creepy but then again the guy could just be using the internet as a tool. or maybe he is a tool. i don't think that men in general can understand what sets of a woman's "creep" radar. we don't read a lot of news stories about men who were abducted by some psycho chick.

but archie, you've seen the people in Europe and elsewhere--their normal is not 30% of the population being obese. maybe we have a problem in the US of identifying normal. a) so many people are grossly overweight and out of shape that it seems "normal". particularly to those who are only moderately over weight and out of shape. and b) the idealized version of both men and women as so pervaded the media that it seems ubiquitous and "normal". Perhaps we so much of both extremes that we don't have any perspective on "normal". Caroline-- I really respect your opinion on the topic. I disagree to some degree though. I don't think anyone of either gender should be forced into any particular gender specific role. h/e i believe that there are certain traits that are more common in each gender. i think it's OK to acknowledge that there are certain personality traits that tend to be unique to each gender. this may not be true for the individual. people should explore whichever and whatever roles they want to take in their lives, relationships and activities. i just don't think it's realistic to pretend their aren't differences. men and women are different in more ways than just anatomy. i think that's pretty cool. the men i spend time with don't turn to me for a band-aid but i am the one that always remembers to bring them. it's all a matter of how you define your relationship with those you spend time with. by all means, pass on being the model for the bikini shoot but don't judge a woman that values that. i know plenty of women who know exactly what they're doing when they're using their good looks to make money. they're not dumb. who is getting used the woman who makes money modeling, or the guy who is paying for it? it's up to her to negotiate a good deal.

i think he hearts you

it's always those damn quinces!

i doubt it. i'm sure iaxx is way too cool to be home reading the internet on a Friday evening.

but they missed both Xs

hmmm...i don't think they really want to know that!

but i notice they spelled your name wrong CC

i'm not commenting on anything to do with you and the word bone karate crack ..... waahhhh

i think kevbone has a boy crush on steven

i don't behave for just anybody.

i'm stunned that somone actually married me. i'm a pita, bitchy, and messy. my husband is one tough SOB to get me to behave!

i see it's obvious you don't know my husband

well you two have fun talking to yourselves. i'm going to my husband, child and dinner. if i'm really lucky, when i get home there'll be a nice tax deduction, some night skiing ans some getting lucky waiting for my also.

that'll probably be the last time you ever say that i'm right

FW- I was responding to pink not you. you're actually funny

there'd be no good reason to marry the likes of you. yes lonliness would be a totally lame reason to get married. that wasn't the implication.

and apparently lonliness loves you.

aha, you'd rather steal than work for it.

FW- i think the more relevant stat would be what % of prison inmates had fathers involved in their lives not if they were raised by a single mom. the statistic wouls bear your point but i don't think it's as clear cut as that question alone. i wish i knew where those stats are. i'm sure that % is relatively small at this point but i suspect you'll see the number increase as part of growing trend. my point being that unwed doesn't mean absentee parents. i'm pro-family but i don't see why the hang up with marriage.

you're not a pro unless someone is willing to pay for it. you're just slut. maybe someday when you grow up you can call yourself a whore.

and pink you became a relationship expert, when?

cindy66-- i suppose that depends on how long they've been living together, what state they're in and wasn't included in the study i read.

ahhh....another insight into pink's bitter and lonely existence.