you've got to be kiddin' me. most guys prefer not to say a damned thing. probably because they have no idea what they're thinking. that, or they're just not thinking!
I have to give TLG a to this. Men seem confused about most things regarding a relationship. Even when you do give it to them in black and white lingo - they still need to hear it two or three times. Like a child!
MEN ARE LIKE DOGS - in a sense.
All you have to do is feed them , nuture them with lots of lovin' , take them for walks , and let them sit on your lap .
They need a little freedom to explore the backyard - or the wilderness on thier own. But when it all comes down to it - if you supply what they need - they will be loyal.
Cuz we too simple minded to complicate things....no brainer, that is...