olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Happy good times! Where my people at? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 I can do this all myself. Just sit back and relax. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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knotzen Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 You sure know how to throw a party. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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minx Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Â ahh look--he's sampling before he eats the cute little rabbit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 Dru why haven't you crapped in this thread yet? Peter Puget where is the link? COBRAAAAAA!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 Five (or more) of the following criteria must be met:  Feels grandiose and self-important (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents to the point of lying, demands to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)  Is obsessed with fantasies of unlimited success, fame, fearsome power or omnipotence, unequalled brilliance (the cerebral narcissist), bodily beauty or sexual performance (the somatic narcissist), or ideal, everlasting, all-conquering love or passion  Firmly convinced that he or she is unique and, being special, can only be understood by, should only be treated by, or associate with, other special or unique, or high-status people (or institutions)  Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation - or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious (narcissistic supply)  Feels entitled. Expects unreasonable or special and favorable priority treatment. Demands automatic and full compliance with his or her expectations  Is "interpersonally exploitative", i.e., uses others to achieve his or her own ends  Devoid of empathy. Is unable or unwilling to identify with or acknowledge the feelings and needs of others  Constantly envious of others or believes that they feel the same about him or her  Arrogant, haughty behaviours or attitudes coupled with rage when frustrated, contradicted, or confronted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 Never disagree with the narcissist or contradict him  Never offer him any intimacy  Look awed by whatever attribute matters to him (for instance: by his professional achievements or by his good looks, or by his success with women and so on)  Never remind him of life out there and if you do, connect it somehow to his sense of grandiosity  Do not make any comment, which might directly or indirectly impinge on his self-image, omnipotence, judgment, omniscience, skills, capabilities, professional record, or even omnipresence. Bad sentences start with: "I think you overlooked ... made a mistake here ... you don't know ... do you know ... you were not here yesterday so ... you cannot ... you should ... (perceived as rude imposition, narcissists react very badly to restrictions placed on their freedom) ... I (never mention the fact that you are a separate, independent entity, narcissists regard others as extensions of their selves, their internalization processes were screwed up and they did not differentiate properly) ..." You get the gist of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squid Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 You're right. 100%. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 rejection is one thing.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
archenemy Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Yup. No doubt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 I won't let common sense chain me down or restrict my freedom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squid Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Wow! That's brilliant! Â May I cling to your coat-tails? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 welcome Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squid Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olyclimber Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 Yes...the Rasputniks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
archenemy Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 welcome this pic is getting frayed around the edges. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaps Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Fluff like this should be illegal. It is misuse of the Internet, just like spam is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomtom Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Never disagree with the narcissist or contradict him  Never offer him any intimacy  Look awed by whatever attribute matters to him (for instance: by his professional achievements or by his good looks, or by his success with women and so on)  Never remind him of life out there and if you do, connect it somehow to his sense of grandiosity  Do not make any comment, which might directly or indirectly impinge on his self-image, omnipotence, judgment, omniscience, skills, capabilities, professional record, or even omnipresence. Bad sentences start with: "I think you overlooked ... made a mistake here ... you don't know ... do you know ... you were not here yesterday so ... you cannot ... you should ... (perceived as rude imposition, narcissists react very badly to restrictions placed on their freedom) ... I (never mention the fact that you are a separate, independent entity, narcissists regard others as extensions of their selves, their internalization processes were screwed up and they did not differentiate properly) ..." You get the gist of it.  First you describe Gary, then you say he's bad at math. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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