to the women...do women expect guys to push their chair in? what about opening car door for them? why is this a "manner" issue and why is it important? it''s maybe sweet and nice to do it the first couple of times, but how long do you expect the guy you go out with to do this for you?
I find people that area serious about outdoor sport tend to be very self reliant...just not when they are in the city?
I can't speak for ALL the gals, but I hope that chivelry isn't dead. I love it when a guy opens the door for me, pulls out my chair, etc. LOVE IT! In all my hobbies, activities, and even in my job...I'm always busy trying to keep up with the men. It's nice to be reminded that I still am a women, and that the guy recognizes that. To be treated like a lady...God..what women wouldn't LOVE that??
For how long...hmm...for-ever. I mean if we're going to the local pub for some burgers and beer, then no...I don't expect you to hold my chair out for me....but if we've been married for 25 years and we're going out to a nice dinner..then yes, I do still want the chair routine.
The door...any chance you get to open a door for a women, without it being a huge ordeal...then do it! We love it!! well I love it, as do most of my friends, I don't know about the rest of the gals on this site tho.