Right from the get-go brother. Who ever said my kids dont have rules or boundaries?
You did, when you said you don't "impose your will on them."
How can you have rules and boundaries without imposing will?
He said it in another protracted thread in the past.
Basically, if K's kids do something wrong he just distracts them. "Hey you punched your sister... look at these gummi bears". Yeah, that teaches a lesson.
If you give the kids the attention they need in the first place, then he will have never punched his sister in the first place and there is no need for a "lesson". I know these theories are way beyond two simpleton parents like yourselves but one can dream.