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Hey, I was drunk on Old Spice at the time. How the hell should I remember where they came from? Jeez.

exquisite. Minus the grey chest hairs I had to remove from my teeth.

I have cams that have no teeth left and I use them regularly (still). I get a little sketchy about using small ones in a spot I may take a fall, but that is it. I always regain my trust in them when I aid with them and they hold fine.

Yeah, but I am down to the cheap stuff. I already drank all the good vintage stuff. The Old Spice 2001 was wonderful.

Not important.

Thanks for the insight. I'll adjust my craigslist add: WANTED: one homely dude with huge "personality".

Hell, I'm about to move on to the rubbing alcohol.

mmmmmmm.....turpentine.....

We're out there, but mostly taken. Now it's time to cue up the whole "why are women always attracted to 'bad boys,' while ignoring the good ones, and then complain because their hearts are broken." Oh please. We outgrow that phase just as men outgrow that "all that matters is her tits" phase. I go for highly intelligent nerds who climb, ski, and listen to metal. Fortunately, I hear most of them are in the process of getting a divorce so they won't be "taken" much longer...

As well as being dissappointing.

Key word = "hard"

thats the p&p I referred to above. Are there in-person classes? I learn best in that format and can't seem to find any...

I found that marriage very much impacted my committment. I felt wholly different in that relationship than in any other. I just wish I could find a man who felt the same way. But then, I could wish in one hand and shit in the other and watch which one fills up first.

You make a good point. Mostly on this thread I've been joking around - a little truth, a little just for fun. In all honesty, I'm a hopeless romantic who hopes to find a partner for life. It just hasn't worked out that way yet and I keep getting my heart broken by guys who don't want to be monogamous, but being a hopeless romantic, I keep trying. I've been told I'm a bit intense in my individualism, which intimidates a lot of guys, but I'm also really good at sustaining quality, enduring friendships with people of both sexes, so I know a good partnership will turn up eventually. Jeez...how did this turn into a therapy session! New thread! Marriage does not make a man monogamous.

Maybe what you need is a Mirdle.

Having been in two long term relationships (one of them for 12 years), I feel that I am able to throw my opinion in on the whole long term vs dating pool of opinions. I find both states satisfying at times and challenging at others. I've had relationships that break up cleanly and others that break my heart. And some shit I get over and other shit changes me as a human being. I am negative some days and other days I am all happy horseshit. Seems normal to me; but then, the insane person never questions their sanity, do they? Wow...you and RuMR seem very defensive. Explaining that I've felt both sides of the equation comes across as defensive to you? How very strange.

I think this is well written and I agree with what you say. And your observation of some unhappy single people is not contrary to my observations--it is only in addition to it.

Having been in two long term relationships (one of them for 12 years), I feel that I am able to throw my opinion in on the whole long term vs dating pool of opinions. I find both states satisfying at times and challenging at others. I've had relationships that break up cleanly and others that break my heart. And some shit I get over and other shit changes me as a human being. I am negative some days and other days I am all happy horseshit. Seems normal to me; but then, the insane person never questions their sanity, do they?

Asking a couple of obvious questions about this generalizing drivel is getting defensive? And dont' ever lump me in with RuMR again.

Toilet paper.

So I keep hearing! Is marriage good for anyone? I mean, seriously. Aside from the tax breaks? NO! don't do it! the tax breaks aren't worth it Nope, I have NO plan to EVER get married. Or even come close to it. Ever. Seriously. Do you simply have no planfor marriage? Or are you actively planning to go out of your way to never get married? Um...I have no plan nor desire to ever be married. I think it's a bassackwards institution that is set up to fail. I would consider "partnership" but it would have to be in an open fashion. How would one go out of one's way to never be married? Only have same-sex relationships. Then you can never get married (at least not in the US) True, but I really like men... Yeah, me too. Emphasis on the plural.

Or rather, because we have to marry one man. And he always turns out to be an asshole. Men are so much more fun when they are lovers and not husbands.

It's because we have to marry men.