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what is it that you'd like to do?

that's 1-2 grand just to get the door

thats probably true. heck i'm not sure i'd survive the loss of my child let alone survive a marriage

sure, but what else?

yes that does beg the question, what does a partner "have the right to know?"

kevbone, someday, more misfortune will befall me and i will meet you in person. at which time, you will pay dearly for that last comment

and just what do you suspect me of? of course i'm suspect....duh!

bite me bitches! i'm wearing a pink shirt right now

chuck, Richardson has plenty of foreign policy experience and i'm sure he could plagarize something

yes kevbone, you would know all about annoying

I've known of more than one relationship similar to what you describe that didn't last. It seemed that, over time, when it came to the "redefining" part, they couldn't agree. sometimes people grow apart, sometimes they grow together more. i'm not sure its about 'redefining' as it is growth

bill, i've got a family member who currently reports directly to B.R. who really enjoys working with him. has nothing but great things to say about him as a manager and a person.

i'm sure its obvious

Well if you go by that link....you are miserable because your husband is better looking that you..... that's a distinct possibility!

can i meet you over there on Sat. I'm fat, slovenly and easy.

hey, remember it says he's perfect. ego trumps politics that explains why i'm so miserable

you are perfect PP. no one posts a link quite like you.

hmmmm.... i definitely don't care what you're spanking this morning. and i'm sorry that its disappointing.

i like external input, and i like my own tail. now what?

Marriage is a choice every day. No difference. It's so funny that you would think that there is. Very defensive. not defensive at all. very open and honest. i don't think so anymore. if marriage tought me nothing else, it was that.

so true!

i like the idea of long term relationships. i actually think its harder to stay in a relationship that doesn't involve marriage than it does to stay married. its a choice every day. either party can leave anytime w/o out much fuss. i didn't find that getting married helped the committment in my relationship at all. its just a piece of paper. maybe i naively thought it would. the only difference is that there are more hoops to jump through if you end it.

at least you can count

Toilet paper. maybe... but its not so much harder to get divorced than it is to break up a long relationship. just extra hassle

tvash, you need a good lump so take yours w/rumr