I'd be interested in a Seattle pub club meeting again. Can't do Tacoma though. Dante's is a good place, although I think the Monkey Pub across the street is less "hi I'm a frat boy and I wear my hat backwards" kind of place.
Lisa- That psycho stalker guy has a serious problem and sounds dangerous. I'm really sorry you are living in such hell. I lived next door to a real asshole neighbor about 7 years ago. He beat his wife regularly, listened to the stereo full blast until the wee hours of the morning, and threatened everyone. After I asked him to turn his music down or whatever, he decided to turn his "issues with women" onto me. He stole my laundry (Levis) and sold them, stole my mail and signed up for credit cards under my name, followed me around Capitol Hill screaming at me calling me b*tch, etc. He did everything to make my life miserable, put screws in my car tires, broke the antenna off my car, broke lights outside my apartment, threw baseballs against the wall all night just to aggrivate me, and tried to run me over with his truck. The list goes on and on. The police didn't do shit except piss him off more. The landlord was terrified of him. Tired of the threats, I finally unlisted my number, and moved away. It would have been immensely satisfying to get some of my 6'2" friends to break both of his legs in a dark ally- but unfortunately that's illegal.