As Erik and a few others know, I am one of the lucky ones. My incredible wife is in great shape, nearly a black belt in a martial art, is a wonderful mother to our two little boys, and has still managed to climb lots of fun routes with me and others (Rainier twice, Hood twice, Baker, Outer Space, Maude N. Face in a day from home, S.W. Rib and S. Arete of S. Early Winter Spire, Canary, Givler's Crack, several winter walk ups, Stuart W. Ridge in a day from home (11 hours car-to-car), Ingall's N. Peak, S. Ridge, the Tooth S. Face, etc. Not real hard stuff by any means, but enough to give us a rush before going home to the baby sitter. We have busy lives to be sure, but climbing together a few times each summer and winter is good clean fun, whether we top out or not. In other words, marriage and climbing can very peacefully co-exist if you find the right person to start with.
John