layton Posted December 12, 2004 Share Posted December 12, 2004 (edited) Do you: Edited December 13, 2004 by michael_layton Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foraker Posted December 12, 2004 Share Posted December 12, 2004 Is she worth it or are you one of those types who dislikes being alone? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted December 12, 2004 Author Share Posted December 12, 2004 this is hypothetical. Â Â Â Â Â Â (or is it???) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foraker Posted December 12, 2004 Share Posted December 12, 2004 Well, all of the choices seem to involve sacrificing your dignity and self-esteem, so I'd say "D) all of the above" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted December 12, 2004 Author Share Posted December 12, 2004 what's love without sacrificing all your dignity and self-esteem. also who said i had those traits to start with Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lancegranite Posted December 12, 2004 Share Posted December 12, 2004 Love is not for pussies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted December 12, 2004 Author Share Posted December 12, 2004 ohhhh the stoic hero is losing the battle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distel32 Posted December 13, 2004 Share Posted December 13, 2004 if she is worth it, go all out, no better feeling than being loved Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted December 13, 2004 Author Share Posted December 13, 2004 if she is worth it, go all out, no better feeling than being loved  too true. however, the catch is there's no worse feeling then being unloved.  I voted for the stoic hero.  why I am I doing this stupid poll and thread you ask? too think of anything but final exams. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ken4ord Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 if she is worth it, go all out, no better feeling than being loved  Yeah and for her no worst feeling than being stalked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobBob Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 Jesus Christ, can't you just go up to who-ever-she-is, and go for it?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jordop Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 Jesus Christ, can't you just go up to who-ever-she-is, and go for it?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlpineK Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 When I vote in one of Mike's polls on women I stop and think...how can I help Mike make the biggest ass of himself in this situation. Â I never want to see Mike run out of angst. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobBob Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 great pic jordop...but I just don't get this angst. I never remember things being so difficult as you guys make them out to be. (Disclaimer...happily married and off the street for 15 years.) Â my hypothesis: You guys have been lured into this metrosexual bullshit. You treat women as equals. Well they're not equals. They are different. They want you to act like men. Act like men and treat them like women. Express some sincere interest in them as women. Is is really that hard? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted December 14, 2004 Author Share Posted December 14, 2004 Post deleted by jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cj001f Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 You treat women as equals. Well they're not equals. They are different. They want you to act like men. Act like men and treat them like women. Express some sincere interest in them as women. Is is really that hard? Do not take this approach in Portland. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted December 14, 2004 Author Share Posted December 14, 2004 or on this website Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
specialed Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 The poll was about a decision I had to make last year about this time which I very bady regret and it has been slowly eating away at me. I basically lost the love of my life due to a misunderstanding. Â Yeah you misunderstood that she didn't like you. Â Â Â Â (just kidding Mike ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sk Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 great pic jordop...but I just don't get this angst. I never remember things being so difficult as you guys make them out to be. (Disclaimer...happily married and off the street for 15 years.)Â my hypothesis: You guys have been lured into this metrosexual bullshit. You treat women as equals. Well they're not equals. They are different. They want you to act like men. Act like men and treat them like women. Express some sincere interest in them as women. Is is really that hard? i happen to very much agree with this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted December 14, 2004 Author Share Posted December 14, 2004 well there aren't many people like you muffy (too bad) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sk Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 well there aren't many people like you muffy (too bad) thank you mikey. it all comes around. eventulay. I know it does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layton Posted December 14, 2004 Author Share Posted December 14, 2004 that's bullshit. it does not come around in this lifetime. i've learned many times that good things do not come your way, the only karma is bad karma. Â Good things do not happen. you must MAKE them happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaskadskyjKozak Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 that's bullshit. it does not come around in this lifetime. i've learned many times that good things do not come your way, the only karma is bad karma. Â Good things do not happen. you must MAKE them happen. Â Good things DO happen - you just need to pay attention and recognize them when they do (sometimes easier said than done). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distel32 Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 hhmmm  Well I think some of the married people who say it isn't that big of a deal don't understand. I'm 20 years old and I have to admit that I am usually very very lucky/fortunate with the women who I have been interested in. I am very outgoing though and usually don't find it too difficult to talk to people. Many of my friends though have trouble expressing themselves and their feelings which does complicate things.  I think the hardest part that maybe Mikey is talking about is figuring out if girls are interested or not. For instance with the girl I am currently seeing I had no clue she liked me until she cuddled up to me during a movie. We'd been hanging out for a month before that happened and was very interested in her, but had no clue how she felt. Asking a woman out when she has no interest puts her in an unusual situation because she either has to say yes and go on an awkward date, or diss the guy and probably lose the relationship if they just met.  Mike, hang tough big guy. Just express yourself as best you can, hide the velcro gloves and don't forget to buy flowers.  on an unrelated note, I buy the best christmas gifts: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dberdinka Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 Soounds like you're romantisizing a past relationship into something it never was? Â Remove yourself emotionally for a moment and think about what happened.. Â You spent 4? years with this person, lived with this person, and when it ended you seemed pretty content with that decision. Â Time goes by and for whatever reasons you begin to forget the REALITY of the realtionship and remember it how you want to, you put your ex and you relationship with that ex on a pedistal where it never really belonged. Â If you had deal with REALITY again would you end up feeling any different then last time? Â I got to find out the hard way that the answer is HELL NO! Â Of course results might vary... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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