Showering first definately softens the hair and makes for a closer, more comfortable shave. And yes, I know i should have said "defog" instead of "defrost". The problem with showering first is that, as mentioned before, the mirror gets foggy (not frosty) and its hard to wipe away all the errant shaving cream with water and your hands and a towel. So, I like to shit, shower, dry myself, put on a towel, dry mirror with hair dryer, shave, take off towel, get back in shower, wash off remaining foam, get out, dry myself, hang up the towel, brush my teeth, apply deoderant, get dressed,and then go about my business. In case you're curious.